Find friends
Meet for real first,
then get to know each other
Mate has no profiles from out of nowhere. Everyone in your list was really near you for at least 30 seconds, at the same restaurant, gym or concert.
- 30 sNear each other counts as one meetingJust walking past doesn't count. You need to be close for a while.
- 15 daysSee everyone you met recentlyAs a grid of big photos, or as a list.
- 1–100You set how many meetings it takesBefore someone can message you. Their view of your photo sharpens on the way.
Tap the cards to switch
The more you meet, the clearer you see
Profile photos get clearer each time you meet. Someone who passes you once never sees your face clearly, and you choose how many meetings it takes to see your photo at its sharpest.
First meetingJust a soft outline
Second meetingGetting clearer
Third meetingAlmost there
Met enough timesAs clear as they allow
You're in control
Turn discovery on or off any time
While it's off, you meet no one new and people nearby can't find you.
Only the day you met
No map, no live times. Nobody can follow where you are right now.
Choose who you talk to
Pick how many meetings it takes to see a clear photo, and block anyone at once.
Met them? Keep talking in a private chat
Every message is encrypted and only the two of you can read it.